8 Reasons Leadership Means Selling

Introduction
I was recently presented with an
interesting challenge. In a more or less routine process of regular performance
evaluation I found myself in strong disagreement with one of my peers about a
success of a project. We were looking at the same data, heard the same feedback
from the same participants, and still, we came to completely different
conclusions. I was responsible for the project and believed it was a success,
the other person had only high-level picture and felt it was a failure.
It made me think. Obviously, something was wrong.
After considering it carefully, I came to a conclusion that even though the
project actually was successful, I still failed as a leader. I underestimated
the importance of selling. I even didn’t realize that this peer of mine was
someone I needed to sell the idea to.
Leadership is about selling. Daniel Pink, in his book To
Sell Is Human, claims that “people are now spending about 40 percent of
their time at work engaged in non-sales selling—persuading, influencing, and
convincing others in ways that don’t involve anyone making a purchase. Across a
range of professions, we are devoting roughly twenty-four minutes of every hour
to moving others.” That is a staggering amount of time and effort. And when you
are in any management or leadership position you are definitely at the top end
of the range. It is your job to persuade, to influence, to convince, to lead,
to sell.
Let me first remove any negative connotation about
the term “selling” as it related to leadership. You should always be selling
stuff to others in effort to help them out, not to help yourself. Selling means
asking others to part with some of their resources. It can be money, but not
only. In leadership, it is mostly time, effort and attention. Daniel Pink is
using a great example of a teacher. He requires the resources of his students.
In their case it would be those mentioned above, time, effort, and attention
and in return, he is selling them the idea that at the end of the lesson they
will be better off because of the things they learn. The same applies to
leadership. Selling in that context is not only required, but it is a highly
positive endeavor benefiting the leader, the team, and the organization.
Selling
a vision
One of the key responsibilities of any leader is to
sell a vision. If you want your team to follow, you need to have two things.
You need to have a team and you need to tell them where to go and why:
1. To rally the forces – very often you need to
marshal significant forces to tackle a project. It might be people reporting to
you, but often you need to sell the idea also to others outside the
organization so they jump in and help you deliver the project.
2. To show direction – once you have the team to need
to sell them the vision of the perfect outcome. Your team needs to have the
same understanding as you have on where you are heading and what a successful
outcome looks like.
Selling
opinions
This one applies not only to leadership but also
across the board to pretty much every single conversation you have with other
people. If you want to be successful, credible and have an impact, you need to
be able to sell opinions:
3. To build credibility – you need to be able to sell
two things to build credibility. You need to sell your “technical” expertise,
to show that you are an expert on a given topic, or that you at least know what
you are talking about, and you need to sell your character. People need to see
you as a trustworthy person. When they believe you can be trusted as a person
and you know what you are doing, you will be credible.
4. To influence decisions – decisions are done by
people who have the power to make those decisions. You can either complain
about their bad decisions and feel like a victim, or you can accept the reality
and proactively influence the decision before it is made. By selling your
opinion to those who have the power to decide gives you the next best thing to
making the decision yourself. You can influence the decision to get the outcome
you want and to feel positive that your voice was heard. You may even feel like
it wasn’t your boss who made the decision but that it was “us” who made the
decision.
Selling
decisions
As opposed to previous point, sometimes you actually
have the power to make decisions. However, even in this case you need to keep
selling. Only because you make a decision to build a house, it doesn’t mean
that a house will be built. You need to sell the decision to others to make it
happen:
5. To get buy-in – this is somewhat similar to the
first point about selling a vision. The distinction, at least in my mind, is
the one of scope and audience. Sometimes you don’t need help of a particular
individual so you don’t need to sell the vision but you just need to make sure
they don’t stand in your way. Getting their buy-in is enough to make sure they
don’t throw roadblocks in your way. You don’t need your neighborhoods to build
your house, but you want to make sure they can live with the noise and mess the
activity will cause so they don’t create legal obstacles.
6. To sell results – plans are nice, but execution is
what matters. You need to be able to get things done and to sell the idea to
others that the work indeed is done and everything is great. Too often, we
focus so much on the details and the small things that go wrong that we forget
to sell and celebrate our successes.
Selling
services
Finally, you need to be able to sell your services
even within your own company. You need to do it for two good reasons, to sell
an image of someone who can lead and get things done, and to sell the idea that
people should want to work with or for you:
7. To build image – it first glance it sounds like
something that shouldn’t be necessary, but it is. We don’t live in a perfect
world where it is obvious to everyone that you are a great leader. Unless you
build an image of someone who can lead and get things done, no one will follow
you. And what is as well important in case you want to advance your career, if
you don’t sell your accomplishments and your ability to achieve even more, you
may never get the opportunity to achieve anything.
8. To build relationships – chances are that whatever
you do you need cooperation of others. By selling your services to them, you
can get their cooperation in return. The best way to build good, long-lasting
relationship is to care about others and to give without expecting anything in
return. By selling your time, effort, attention, and care of others, you are
buying a potential to receive the same in the future when you most need it. The
human need to reciprocate is one of the most powerful ways to gain influence.
As you can see, selling is an important part of
leadership. In case you are already in a position of power and you feel you
don’t need to sell, let me remind you the example from the first paragraph of
this article. The reason I failed as a leader was that I thought I don’t need
to sell because the data will speak for itself. I felt secure and powerful and
that perspective cost me. With little bit more humility and by reducing (at
least in my mind) my power I could push myself into a selling mode and show to
my peers why the project was a success and why she should buy the idea and
adopt the same position. Alfred
Fuller allegedly said, “Never argue. To win an argument is to lose a
sale.” Luckily, I realized that, and instead of arguing or blaming others, I
went back to my job as a leader. I started to sell.
Comments
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